I Do and Beyond

...every bride needs to experience a show

2011-10-04T17:16:00.004-04:00

You're planning one of the biggest, most exciting days of your life. You'll be saying "I Do" to the one you love. It's also the time for planning. And a must for every bride and groom on the road to planning a wedding should be attending a bridal show. Comparison shopping, tasting cake, looking at linens, interviewing photographers, looking for the wedding gown of your dreams...it can all be found at a bridal show. A few hours spent wandering the isles will fill you with wedding information and options that can set you on the right path to planning the day of your dreams...or if you're close to being done with your planning you can find just the right items to complete your mission.

The Western New England Fall Bridal Show is November 13, 2011 at the MassMutual Center in downtown Springfield, MA. It's the area's largest single day bridal event that brings the area's finest wedding professionals together for one day, in one location for a convenent day of discovery!

Advance registration and tickets available through the website at www.cjcevents.com.

this is the "beyond"...

2011-06-10T11:01:00.003-04:00

Having been involved in the wedding industry for over 20 years in Western New England, you get to know the area wedding professionals...not only their business life and experience, but I've been lucky enough to have many become close friends...consider them "family"! And when it comes to friends and family, you really want to do anything you can to support them. Well, here's a look into what's happening with a member of my "family" who is a well respected wedding professional in the area. I thought I would share her story...please read!

I've known Tara Delskey-Eagen for almost 20 years, both personally and professionally. I've watched her life, her love and devotion to family, friends and business grow so much over the years. And now, to see how much love she and her husband, Ken, have for their beautiful little boy, Declan. Declan has touched so many lives...here's my chance, our chance to touch his. Please support this walk by giving what you can.

In Tara's words about Declan: <--click here and read!

a honeymoon to cherish

2011-05-04T10:07:00.004-04:00

As many of you may already know, a wonderful couple, Stephanie and Brian, were the winners of the first Western New England Great Wedding Giveaway. The wedding giveaway included everything you could ever need or want for a wedding...including a honeymoon. Michelle Mangio from Magical Escapes, put together a wonderful package to Barbados and here's some photos and comments from Stephanie!

From Stephanie: Brian and I had such an amazing time at the Almond Resort in Barbados! The water was the bluest we've ever seen and it was so refreshing. One of the highlights of our trip was a sea safari that included sailing along three different coasts of Barbados, snorkeling at an old shipwreck, discovering the many varieties of marine life that live in the shipwreck, and swimming with the sea turtles. While sailing on the catamaran, we saw a school of flying fish (the national fish of Barbados) and at first, we thought they were birds. They flew over the surface of the water and it was an incredible sight to see. Truly, a once-in-a-lifetime experience that we would highly recommend to those traveling to Barbados. We had a wonderful stay at The Almond Resort.
From start to finish, everybody was very friendly and went out of their way to make sure we were comfortable and enjoying our vacation. They were very informative and suggested many activities for us to try during our one week stay. The food was excellent -- try the flying fish! It was also such a romantic atmosphere with the beach nearby, colorful flowers blooming all around us, exquisite sunsets...what more could we ask for?! It was the first time Brian and I have traveled out of the country together and it certainly won't be the last. Thank you SO much for making this trip possible for us -- we would do it again in a heartbeat!

it's a garden party!

2011-04-24T16:53:00.002-04:00

Spring is here and it's Garden Party time!! Bancroft Bridals will be celebrating Spring with a garden party of fashions that will include the latest trends in bridesmaid dresses and social occasion dresses. This exclusive event will also feature a selection of elite area wedding professionals who will be available for you to ask questions and set up appointments with.

So plan to be at this fun event on Saturday, May 7, 2011. Event begins at 2 p.m. Fashion Show begins at 3:30 p.m. Admission is free, but space is limited.

You must R.S.V.P. with Caitlin at Bancroft Bridals to attend!
Call to R.S.V.P. at (413) 789-3073 or bbridalscnp@comcast.net by April 29, 2011.

Bancroft Bridals is located at DePalma Crossing, 967 Springfield Street, Feeding Hills, MA 01030 (413) 789-3073 www.bancroftbridals.com

unique gowns showcased at local trunk show...

2011-04-10T15:37:00.003-04:00

Stunning...exquisite, dramatic, romantic, delicate...captivating!! These are all words to describe the 2011 Avant Mariee Collection of bridal gowns. In an area exclusive, you'll have an opportunity to experience those words in person at the Avant Mariee by Winnie Couture Trunk Show taking place April 21-28 at Pearl Bridal Boutique. Sweetheart necklines, strapless, ruched bodice, flowy, pickup skirt, beading at the natural waist are all features of the many, many bridal gowns you will be able to try on at this event...who knows...your dream wedding gown may be waiting for you...!!

Ryan Mainville, owner of Pearl Bridal Boutique, reminds you that appointments are necessary for this Trunk Show and this collection will only be here April 21-28th. Additionally, anyone purchasing a bridal gown at this event will receive a 10% discount. Pearl Bridal Boutique is located at 1 Open Square, Holyoke, MA. www.pearlbridalboutique.com. Call today for your appointment at 413-315-6102.

winners of Las Vegas adventures...

2011-04-03T13:26:00.008-04:00

Las Vegas, the hot spot for quickie weddings, bright lights, exciting stage shows, creative restaurants and of course, gambling, was the focus of Michelle Mangio of Magical Escapes and her giveaway promotions at the Western New England Spring Bridal Show. She once again put together a terrific accommodation package for the winner of the Groom's Room and the Grand Prize winner of the bridal show itself. Heading off to stay at the new Aria Resort, the two winners will experience all the sights, sounds, tastes and excitement Las Vegas has to offer! Congratulations to the winners!

Honeymoon Winners:
Maggie Kucharski & Mike Towne

Groom's Prize:
Ricky Paro

local trends shared by local experts...

2011-03-29T08:16:00.008-04:00

Western New England has many wonderfully talented wedding professionals and we thought we would share a few with you!

Eutopia Events is very creative and thinks outside the box to achieve a bride and groom's desired wedding,whether it is a wedding cake, decor, or to add that extra touch to the day.

The team of Lauren Mace and Ruthie McDonald want to share these trends for local weddings:
• Welcoming reception at the ceremony – light Hor’Deourves and non-alcoholic beverages, especially at an outdoor wedding where it may be hot and guests might arrive early
• Doing a wedding cake and dessert buffet with something non-traditional such as pies or a favorite dessert.
• Buttercream wedding cakes. Many couples are going back to the traditional buttercream cakes rather than fondant, for both taste and looks.
• Choosing different colors for the bridesmaids dresses rather than sticking with one hue.
• Mixing table shapes and sizes – Couples aren’t sticking with the traditional round table these days, they are opting to mix it up to create variety and customize their reception to better fit their style.
• Outdoor weddings – couples are opting to do this because it provides a more personal touch to their day
• Vintage styles – from wedding dresses to the ornate details of the décor, weddings are taking on old style charm with a modern twist.
• Eco-weddings continue to be popular. From recycled paper for invitations to using food from local farmers and providers, couples are more aware of their wedding carbon footprint.

Located in Massachusetts, Eutopia Events has a passion for throwing amazing parties.
Email eutopiaevents@gmail.com
Phone 508.735.1701 or 413.475.2282

a taste of Chicago

2011-03-22T13:17:00.004-04:00

We love creative people, groups, talented and artistic individuals who share their passion for what they do. Personally, I love to work with and promote those unique talents when the opportunity arises.

Giving a boost to the West Springfield High School Drama Club, they were invited to highlight a few numbers from their upcoming production of Chicago. This is a highly talented group of kids who stepped out and added their stamp to the recent Western New England Spring Bridal Show. Singing, dancing, costumes and more! Thanks goes out to director, Michael Pandolfi and the Drama Club for making this a unique and unexpected addition to the bridal show.

Support the drama club by attending their production of Chicago on Thursday, March 24th through Saturday, March 26th. 7pm. Tickets available at the door. The West Springfield High School is located on Piper Road, West Springfield, MA.

let them eat cake...

2011-03-20T16:26:00.005-04:00

It can be sweet, delicate, colorful, flavorful, and definately unique...it's wedding cake! Brides and grooms have more choices than ever when it comes to designing a wedding cake. Expression of the couples' lives, likes, a theme...it's all open to whatever they decide.

Recently, wedding cake designs were showcased at the Western New England Spring Bridal Show. Some of the area's finest wedding cake designers showed off hot designs, unique styles and designs that any couple could make their own. Voted most popular design and winner of the Brides' Choice Award was Eutopia Events.

Whatever you do...make it your own!

a wedding professionals own wedding...

2011-03-20T13:21:00.006-04:00

You're a wedding professional...serving brides and grooms, helping them make their day special and all it can possibly be. So what happens when it comes time to plan your own wedding? What do you pick? Which wedding professionals do you work with? Well, Tommy Plante from Hard at Play DJ Service and his wife, Laura, are featured on the cover and in the Real New England section of the March issue of The Wedding Day Sourcebook. You'll find some wonderful images taken by Seth Kaye Photography that celebrate Tommy and Laura's wedding day.

So...what are you doing for your wedding?

it's bridal show time...

2010-11-16T13:24:00.002-05:00

This Sunday marks the 5th year for the Western New England Fall Bridal Show at the MassMutual Center, Springfield, MA, from 11-4pm.

The area's finest wedding professionals will be on hand as well as an amazing New York style runway fashion show with the latest styles in bridal gowns, bridesmaids, special occasion and even fashions for the little ones in your wedding! Taste cake and food samples, sign up for giveaways including a honeymoon from Magical Escapes.

Come early for the $199 bridal gown sample sale. Yes, you heard it...just $199 for a bridal gowns...these gowns were originally priced $800-2000...talk about a savings! Plus if you arrive early you'll also be awarded free wedding bands! Value of $600. Bridal shows are a wonderful way to see everything and find exactly what you want for your wedding...talk about even more savings with free wedding bands!!!

So bring your groom, your attendants, your mom...wear comfy shoes, and just make a day of it! Check the website at www.cjcevents.com.

the really BIG sale

2010-10-19T18:03:00.005-04:00

Bridal Heirlooms does it again! Not only do they have an amazing sample bridal gown sale, they give back to the community...with your help! This Saturday, October 23rd, Bridal Heirlooms offers up their annual Sample Sale! A terrific deal for any bride searching for their dream gown...bring in 5 non-perishable food items and receive 50% your sample sale gown! That's HUGE SAVINGS on 100’s of Beautiful Gowns. Great designers such as Maggie Sottero, Pronovias, Casablanca, Watters and many more!
Also...Special Occasion dresses, Mothers dresses and FlowerGirl styles and Accessories
$39 - $79** with your donation. You can't go wrong!!

Plan to be at Bridal Heirlooms, Saturday, October 23rd, 9am-4pm, located at 17 College Street, South Hadley, MA in the Village Commons Shop. 413-532-4848 www.bridalheirlooms.net

don't you just love...cupcakes...?

2010-07-29T02:34:00.004-04:00

There are few things in life that are so perfect...a cupcake is one. Just a few bites, this moist tasty mini cake is usually decorated with a complimenting frosting and can fit right in as a delicate dessert, party treat, or even a midnight snack. They are still very popular for weddings, used instead of a wedding cake or to anchor a sweets table. Available in so many flavors, it's simple, portable and can hit the spot when you're looking for a quick personal treat.

I recently read an article about the downfall of the cupcake, the pending end of the cupcake trend. How could that be? With the popularity of new television programs like DC Cupcakes and Cupcake Wars, how could it be coming to an end so soon? I've always loved a good cupcake and when I was a small child, my Mom use to take me over to Liberty Bakery and we always bought cupcakes. The white box so neatly tied with white string and packed with our special treats, sometimes that box never made it home unopened. At the time it was just the two of us and picking up a half dozen cupcakes with my Mom was special.

Now I'm planning adventures with my own daughter. We're having fun with the cupcake craze, reading a cupcake cookbook and trying out a few from scratch recipes. We also enjoy stopping at some of our favorite bakeries when we can, to pick up a few cupcakes to top off our day. We've even gone out of our way to make sure we stopped at Cupcake Charlies in Mashpee when we were at the Cape. Businesses like Cupcake Charlies are booming, so I'm not sure where the writer for that article ever got their information. Obviously, they are not hanging out in the right bakeries!

it's all in the look

2010-06-13T12:55:00.005-04:00

Recently I had the opportunity to attend an interesting appointment with bride-to-be, Stephanie Smith, winner of the Western New England Great Wedding Giveaway. If you're not familiar with the Wedding Giveaway, it's a wonderful group of talented wedding professionals joining forces to give away a complete wedding package to one lucky area couple. You can catch up on the activities and all the participating services by visiting the web site at www.westernnewenglandgreatweddinggiveaway.com.

This appointment was for Stephanie's hair. Salon Karma, of East Longmeadow, will be making Stephanie's hair look beautiful on her wedding day! They are experts and really listen to their clients, especially the brides, as it's such a apecial day and so important to have the best look. In these photos you'll see Claire and Jessica, both extremely talented and passionate stylists, working with Stephanie to give her three options for her wedding. All were beautiful and each complimented Stephanie and the hair piece she has from Roxy's Jewelry Boutique.

it's nice to be missed...

2010-05-05T08:12:00.003-04:00

Well, this post is more about having support, love and inspiration with the things I do, the people I love and the events of my life. I recently had the opportunity to attend the Bridal Show Producers International conference, held this year in Las Vegas. First, to get there, my husband took care of everything that would allow me to attend and be gone for a few days out of home and office, which included setting up my little netbook for Skype and email to keep in touch. I never said I was technical, so this is greatly appreciated! Next...my kids, whom I've heard, worked hard to get moving in the morning, get homework done in the afternoon, and worked hard to be more helpful while I was gone, I thank them. My dog, who never leaves my side, was well taken care of by the family and especially my in-laws. Although he was confused about my departure and whereabouts, he was spoiled rotten while I was gone.

On to business...the BSPI conference was inspiring and informative. I feel extremely lucky to be able to rub elbows with the best bridal show producers in the country...and even the world, as we've grown this year with a few new international members. The speakers were inspiring and the topics very informative...all things I plan on sharing with others and working into my business plan and day. I must say thank you to this group...their unselfish gift of support and giving means so much! These moments I will never forget and I know they have certainly helped me.

So...what's next? On to work...on to life; to make change and assist brides and grooms looking for information and wedding professionals for their wedding; to assist our wedding professionals to do better, to be at their best and to find the clients they seek...and to generally be better, raising the bar and expectations...to make change for everyone and everything I touch every day. A challenge...but all good!

talent, patience, style...planning a wedding...

2010-04-10T14:46:00.003-04:00

I have welcomed the talent of a wedding planner. Many area brides feel they don't need one; they don't see how having one could save them any money...or time...or anything. Many brides feel they just can't hand over the reins of planning their wedding to someone else. I've seen first hand what a great value having a wedding planning can do for a couple planning the most important day of their lives. Believe me...it is worth it!

I've had the privilege of working with Lynn Brunelle Kennedy of LB Events and Marketing who is working side by side with the Great Wedding Giveaway winning couple, Stephanie and Brian. She's kept them on schedule, on target and has balanced appointments, questions, and uncertain situations. She's worked tirelessly assuring Stephanie and Brian get the most amazing experience of the lives during the planning of this wedding. I thank her for handling all these things with grace and style. Her social event-planning experience has focused on taking a client’s vision and making it a reality. She's managed to take my vision of giving away a complete wedding package to one couple through a voting process, stir in the twenty or so wedding professionals involved and keep it all balanced and positive. For this I thank her.

Planning a wedding...look her up! You won't be disappointed!

and the dress is....

2010-04-03T21:29:00.008-04:00

Imagine winning an entire wedding...yes, full wedding...meaning bridal gown, tuxedo, music, ceremony, food, flowers...everything any bride and groom needs, but with a twist. You don't have any control over many of the elements of this wedding, including what bridal gown you'll wear on your wedding day. It's all left up to the general public to vote on. You've got the Western New England Great Wedding Giveaway!

Bancroft Bridals picked three unique choices for Stephanie and the winning dress was revealed! Photos by Seth Kaye Photography.

Visit the website to read about Stephanie and Brian's winning story, information about the "Team" putting this giveaway together and your chance to win!! www.westernnewenglandgreatweddinggiveaway.com

an expression...talent

2010-03-30T21:08:00.003-04:00

I feel lucky...lucky that I get to rub elbows with some of the most amazingly talented photographers in western New England. These photographers can shoot a wedding like no other. They capture the smile, a glance, and the very emotions that flow on wedding day. It's an art to snap these moments without fanfare or notice. I would like to thank a special photographer that I'm presently working with on a project called The Western New England Great Wedding Giveaway. Seth Kaye Photography is the official photographer for this giveaway, working closely with the winning couple, Stephanie and Brian to capture their wedding. He recently put together a quick engagement session of Stephanie and Brian that I would like to share with you. http://sethkayeblog.com/stephanie-brians-engagement-session Browse his site and blog...I'm sure you'll be impressed!
Follow the fun! www.westernnewenglandgreatweddinggiveaway.com

A dream wedding...

2010-03-25T08:55:00.004-04:00

Six weeks and 68 applications later, Stephanie and Brian were chosen as the winning couple of The Western New England Great Wedding Giveaway! And what a giveaway it is...the first of its kind in western New England, over 20 of the area's finest wedding professionals teaming up to giveaway an actual wedding valued over $35,000 and growing! Now the fun has begun as anyone and everyone can chime in with their opinions by voting on the very elements that make up Stephanie and Brian's wedding. Presently on deck for voting is Stephanie's wedding gown. She's very brave and she'll have to go with the voters, but she can't go wrong with the choices. Bancroft Bridals will be dressing Stephanie and has offered beautiful 2010 styles that are absolutely stunning! Make sure you visit the website and vote for your favorite wedding gown, read Stephanie and Brian's winning story, and find out about all the professionals involved. Check back often, as you could be a winner too!
www.westernnewenglandgreatweddinggiveaway.com

it's been a while...sorry

2010-03-22T17:04:00.002-04:00

Hello everyone!

Yes, this blog has been missing for a while, but it's time to revise, revitialize and renew and do what we do best...share information about weddings! So much happening and we'll do our best to keep updated with the latest information, events,and trends in the area. We hope you stop back on a regular basis and make I Do and Beyond a part of your wedding planning!

Everyone knows someone...

2009-10-21T21:21:00.002-04:00

Everyone knows someone whos life has been touched by cancer, especially breast cancer. It could be a mom, a relative, a friend, a friend of a friend...I've never met someone who could not say they don't know someone who has been affected by breast cancer.
That being said, this Sunday is the Rays of Hope Breast Cancer walk and it's not to late to donate to this GREAT cause! Every dollar counts, be part of the cure!!!

https://foundation.baystatehealth.org/NetCommunity/SSLPage.aspx?pid=282

Founded in 1994 with 500 walkers, the Rays of Hope walk has grown to attract over 15,000 participants. These participants include more than 460 teams, hundreds of individual walkers and over 300 committee volunteers who work to help Rays of Hope raise funds to improve the breast health of the people in our communities with quality and compassion in partnership with Baystate Regional Cancer Program's Comprehensive Breast Center. Last year through the Baystate Health Foundation, Rays of Hope raised over $812,000 to benefit people throughout Western Massachusetts and surrounding communities.

So...help out. It's not too late to participate! If you can't walk, then sponsor a team. If you can't sponsor a team, just donate. Every dollar helps!

Bridal Buzzzz...It's in the Bag!

2009-10-03T14:19:00.012-04:00

Recently these amazing little goodie bags were handed out to brides who attended the Day of Elegance Bridal Show at Look Park. Full of unique items...here's a little tidbit of what was found!

Custom Couture Invitations and Graphic Design Services, Carla David Design included a cute little sample of thank you cards with envelopes. A simple, but beautiful design, easy to use for shower or wedding thank yous. From beginning to end, Carla David Design can custom design a whole range of details for your wedding. Save-the-Dates, shower invitations, wedding invitations, favor tags and labels and so much more. You can view the website at www.carladaviddesign.com. Thank you Carla David Design for the addition to the goodie bag!

Next, Hailey's Dragonfly Garden Botanicals included a great little 15% OFF coupon for their amazing Organic and All Natural Skin Care products. Certified organic and all natural, this is a company where you can come to nourish and nurture your Mind, Body and Spirit. Face and body scrubs, bath salts, shower gels, amazing specialty soaps, plus gift baskets can all be found at Hailey's! Visit www.haileysdragonflygarden.com.

Planning a wedding...go to a bridal show!

2009-09-16T12:02:00.004-04:00

How does a bride plan her wedding? Well, you start by gathering information. You buy a bunch of magazines and pick up every free local wedding publication. Then you scour the Internet looking for ideas all while making a big list of those things you just love. Then you get really searching and you attend a bridal show. Bridal shows allow you to view a number of different products and services at one location. It saves the time of driving around from place to place, allowing easy comparison shopping. Most bridal shows have a fashion segment allowing you to view the latest styles in bridal gowns and wedding attire. For the bride watching their budget, many exhibitors offer show specials and discounts for reserving them from the show. They also tend to give away some great prizes too.

So mark your calendar and plan to attend the Day of Elegance Bridal Show at the Garden House at Look Park on Sunday, September 20, 2009 from 11-4pm. A beautiful fashion show by Pearl Bridal Boutique will take place in the Garden House Tent with jewelry featured by Roxy's Jewelry Boutique. Magical Escapes will be focusing on wonderful affordable honeymoon locations as well as giving away a Honeymoon to Las Vegas! Taste food samples from the area's finest caterers and bakeries and relax in this stress-free location. For more information visit the website at www.cjcevents.com. The Garden House at Look Park is located at 300 N. Main Street, Florence, MA.

Bridal Buzz...Advance Notice Sale!

2009-08-13T11:36:00.005-04:00

I know searching for just the right wedding gown can be a challenge, but here's the heads up on a terrific opportunity!! Bridal Heirlooms will be celebrating their 10th Anniversary...and you get the party with their End of Summer Clearance Sale! One Day Only, Saturday, August 22nd, Bridal Gowns starting at just $199. Bridesmaids Dresses starting at $25, Mothers Dresses starting at $75, plus more accessories and goodies too numerous to mention!! So take advantage of this sale...stop in at Bridal Heirlooms, 17 College Street, in the Village Commons, South Hadley, MA. 413-532-4848. www.bridalheirlooms.net

Pictured: Christine and Shirley of Bridal Heirlooms

Pure Soy

2009-08-03T15:17:00.004-04:00

Equus Candles brings the ever popular Non Toxic & Biodegradable Soy Candles for wedding party favors. You can choose your color to coordinate with your wedding colors or theme and pick a custom fragrance. To finish up, you'll have a custom label that you can even add your own artwork to. You can visit their website at www.equuscandle.com for more information and favor pricing.

Soy candles burn longer and cleaner. By using natural soy, Equus Candles supports American Farmers and Green Weddings as soy is a renewable resource!

A Frosty Wedding

2009-07-29T18:35:00.003-04:00

Looking to get married, but want something totally unique? Better yet...want it for FREE?
You need to register to win the Hannoush Jewelers Wedding on Ice! The Wedding on Ice takes place on Saturday, November 28, 2009 at the Springfield Falcons' hockey game. The couple who wins the Wedding on Ice will receive:
•A ceremony on the ice before the Falcons game.
•Wedding reception for 50 guests in the Executive Perch
•His and her wedding bands from Hannoush Jewelers
•A bridal gown from Pearl Bridal Boutique
•Tuxedos from Formal Affair Tuxedos
•Photography package from Wcislo Photography
•Transportation from Deluxe Limousine
•Bride's bouquet and ice arrangements from McClelland's Florist

Register at any Hannoush Jewelers location; Formal Affair Tuxedo, 581 Westfield St. West Springfield, MA; Pearl Bridal Boutique, One Open Square Way, Holyoke, MA; or by emailing Bill Bullock (wbullock@falconsahl.com) at the Falcons; or by registering online through media sponsor The Wedding Day Sourcebook.

Happy July!

2009-07-02T23:16:00.005-04:00

Well, it's been a while since the last entry. It's been very busy around here...not just weddings, but events and local happenings that have just kept everyone here jumping. Extreme Makeover Home Edition came to Suffield, CT recently and many of our family, friends and business clients jumped in to lend a hand. Our contribution was small, but it was an amazing experience just to witness and I must say congratulations to the Hill Family and a huge thank you to Robert Charles Photography who captured amazing images of the family and especially all the volunteers at work building this new home for this family. They truly tell the story and I invite everyone to visit the Extreme Pecoy website for day by day slideshows of this amazing undertaking.

Now that the dust...and dirt have settled from this latest project, expect more posts about all things wedding from I Do and Beyond.

Breakfast, Diamonds and Rays of Hope

2009-05-21T22:02:00.003-04:00

The Log Cabin & Delaney House are among a group of Holyoke-based businesses helping to raise money for breast cancer research and showcasing their abilities at a monthly breakfast session.

Breakfast At Sutter’s, held the last Sunday of every month at Sutter’s Jewelry, gives newly engaged couples a chance to learn about Sutter’s, Pearl Bridal Boutique and the Log Cabin & Delaney House while helping to support the Rays of Hope Walk to Cure Breast Cancer.

The breakfasts, which take place at 10 a.m. offer couples a chance to meet one-on-one with store owner and jewelry designer James Sutter and to view a 4-carat diamond from the Diavik mine in British Columbia, Canada. Couples can also get to know bridal gown experts from Pearl Boutique, including owner Ryan Bergeron. And they enjoy a breakfast prepared by chefs from the region’s best wedding reception sites, the Log Cabin & Delaney House, with owner Peter Rosskothen personally attending.

The cost to attend the breakfast sessions is $20. All proceeds from the monthly program benefit Rays of Hope. The next breakfast is Sunday, May 31, 2009. Call Sutter's at 413-534-1111 or email jags@suttersjewelry.com.

Let the Comments Begin...

2009-05-05T22:07:00.014-04:00

The "webisodes" are rolling on www.413wedding.com, the area's first reality wedding that follows a couple, Jessica and Gainer, as they plan their wedding. You can comment on the episodes and even join the forum and post your own questions about your own wedding. Get wedding planning tips from the area's experts and you could even win some prizes.

Check out www.413wedding.com. They want to hear from you!

Helping Hand

2009-04-24T10:00:00.003-04:00

Everyone once and a while wonderful events come our way that we just feel we have to tell everyone about. As many of you know and experience first hand, the economy is tough out there for many people. We just wanted to take a moment to promote an awesome event that helps many many area families.
Have some fun and support a terrific agency!
Dance Party
April 25, 2009
6:00 PM - Midnight
Easthampton American Legion
190 Pleasant St., Easthampton, MA

Community Resources has served western MA families since 1989. They are the ONLY Autism Support Center for all 4 counties of Western MA. We currently serve more than 990 families with new referrals coming to our agency every month. Due to the state budget crisis they are in danger of losing funding used to directly support families.

You can help them get closer to their goal of raising $25,000--all of which will go directly to support families. Registration is just $20 for this event. www.communityresourcesforautism.org. Please contact Jamie Oltmans or Lynn Ford at 413-529-2428 for more information and to register for the Dance Party. Come party or just make a donation...remember...what comes around, goes around...it's all good!

Belle of the Ball

2009-04-13T10:53:00.004-04:00

Calling all previous bridesmaids...and anyone else who has a prom or bridesmaids gown just sitting in their closet, doing nothing. Here's your opportunity to move it out of your closet, recycle it and give it new life! Springfield Women's Committee has re-opened the Belle of the Ball Boutique for prom-goers in the area. They are collecting gently worn gowns to redistribute throughout the greater Springfield area, so that no girl gets left behind and unable to attend their prom because they cannot afford a dress. Dresses in all sizes, length and styles are needed and can be dropped off at Naomi's Inn, 20 Springfield St. in Springfield, MA or at NUVO Bank during bank hours or at Mall Services at Eastfield Mall, Boston Rd. in Springfield, during mall hours. For more information check http://www.naomisinn.net/belle.html or call 413-433-6019

Reality Wedding In Western MA

2009-04-09T13:08:00.003-04:00

A different type of reality wedding is happening in our area and we wanted to give you an advance look at this new on-line reality series!

It’s called 413 Wedding and it’s going to follow a local couple through the process of planning their wedding. Episodes will start showing up on the show’s Web site April 15. There’s a trailer for the series up right now. You can check it out here: www.413wedding.com

You can also get involved in talking about the show or even discuss your own wedding plans with other couples. We're very excited about this series and hope you stop back often!

What's Your Sexy?

2009-03-21T10:15:00.005-04:00

A Different Kind of “Girl’s Night Out”

Bella Donna “What’s Your Sexy?”

A fun and unique boudoir-style portrait experience to celebrate the beauty of every woman. This is an opportunity to express your inner beauty and unique personality, from elegant to wild, by yourself or in an enjoyable boudoir-style portrait gathering.

The party hostess invites up to 10 of her closest female friends to our studio for a private “girl’s night out” event. While enjoying wine and hors d’oeuvres, each woman has an opportunity to express her personal definition of sexy with exquisite portraiture. The experience starts with professional make-up application by Lynn Tassinari Wegiel, followed by your private portrait session. Bring your favorite lingerie, furs, wraps, jeans, and other outfits. This is guaranteed to be an absolute blast for everyone! This amazing session can be had by calling Denise Smith Photography, 85 Maple Road, Longmeadow, MA 413-567-3339
www.denisesmithphotography.com

ABC's of Weddings...E is for Eco-Friendly

2009-03-15T13:49:00.003-04:00

One of the popular buzz words associated with weddings lately is Eco-Friendly, Eco-Chic...or "Green" Weddings. You don't necessarily have to have a totally complete "Green" wedding, but you can reduce your carbon footprint, save a few trees, support a charity and support local farmers by considering adding a few "Green, eco-friendly" elements to your wedding. Here's a few suggestions:
• In lieu of a favor, give a donation to a local charity
• Cut down on fuel, have your ceremony and reception at the same location.
• Donate the leftover uneaten food from your reception to Rachael's Table.
• Use locally grown organic fruit in and on your wedding cake.
• Hire a totally digital photographer
• Give tree saplings for wedding favors
• Use recycled paper for your wedding invitations
• For your reception meal, use local organic vegetables
• Support a non-profit organization through one's choice of a wedding venue, such as a museum, cultural center, "green-friendly" venue or landmark building.
• For traditional chocolate favors, use organic chocolate or Fair-Trade candies.
• Reception food/Catering; consider using a caterer that uses only local sources for their ingredients or sustainable resources for chicken or fish.

ABC's of Weddings...D is for Diamonds (and more!)

2009-02-25T21:49:00.002-05:00

One of the first purchases for a couple who have decided to get married is an engagement ring. The first thing that comes to mind is a diamond ring, but engagement rings don't have to be that perfect diamond. We've seen so much more, like ruby and emeralds, alone or with diamonds. Vintage and antique settings. But it all comes down to personal style.

This One's for Groom's To Be...

2009-02-05T12:32:00.002-05:00

Is a Proposal in Your Future?

Guys...how long have you been with your girlfriend in a serious relationship? Six months? A year...two years or more? Did you know that Valentine's Day is the second most popular day to pop "the question?" So...what are you waiting for...?

Are you nervous about that engagement ring? Here's some information to help guide your way.

No. 1: When Buying an Engagement Ring, Don't Automatically Think You Can't Afford Quality

Platinum is the metal of choice. An engagement ring is an investment in beauty with a meaning of long lasting love, but it doesn't have to cost an arm and a leg. Even De Beers, a popular name associated with diamonds, carries Platinum rings costing as little as $2,650.

No. 2: You Can't Go Wrong With A Classic Style

A solitaire diamond ring has been a classic design for decades. There is true elegance in showcasing a unique, single diamond in a solitaire ring setting, but is is also important to get a sense from your fiancé about her preferences.

No. 3: The Necessary Question:

What is Her Ring Size? If you have no idea and don't want to ask, try one of these methods. A jeweler can calculate her ring size from any of them.

Trace the inside of one of her rings onto paper.
Borrow one of her rings, something she wears often.
Put one of her rings on your finger and mark where it rests with a pen, then get yourself to the jeweler!

No. 4: Choose Wisely
Buy a ring that symbolize your love, and that she'll want to wear for the rest of her life .

Jewelry should mirror a relationship--beautiful, unique and lasting.

7 Quick Tips for Bridal Gown Shopping

2008-12-28T20:01:00.002-05:00

Careful planning is essential for your wedding preparations to go smoothly. Headaches and stress does not exactly make a blushing, beaming bride. You may have heard of rumors about otherwise placid females morphing into bridezillas, especially when it comes to picking a wedding gown. If you are keen NOT to be one of them, then review these tips:

1. Envision yourself on your big day. What do you see yourself wearing? Take into account the circumstances, your style. Are you going to have a beach wedding or a garden wedding? Or are you going to have a traditional church wedding? Consider the season; a wrap, strapless, skinny straps, or sleeves.

2. Decide on your budget. Formulate a general price range so you can be flexible enough in choosing from the wide variety of designs.

3. Do some homework. Browse the internet, books, magazines -- leaf through them and figure out which styles flatter you and which ones don't, which style you would be comfortable in. Narrow down your options and find the designs which suit your personality best, but do keep an open mind.

4. Research bridal salon locations, customer reviews, recommendations and price range -- these are the vital issues you have to deal with. Do some research on the internet. You might be tempted to order a dress from Ebay on the cheap, or from some shop across the country, but why take a chance on such an important decision. Look for shops near your area. Ask friends and relatives for recommendations.

5. Call the shops you've selected. Find out more about the store and the kind of goods it offers. It's best to make an appointment so you'll have time to browse and try on gowns. Learn about their staff through these phone conversations, as well.

6. Be practical. You may want to look like a princess on your wedding day, but surely you don't want to go broke doing so. Set a budget, set a design and find a dress that fits into both. Keep your options open as you do not need to stick to one bridal shop. Look for special sales, trunk shows, sample sales and end of season discounts. Go explore until you find the perfect one.

7. Keep open minded. Good full service bridal salon consultants and owners know their gowns, prices, and styles. They might suggest a designer or style you have not considered, that although may not look like much on the hanger, may look beautiful on you. Be flexible and give it a try!

Above all, have fun shopping for your gown. Know that it's a once-in-a-lifetime experience, so make the most of it. Know what you want, go for what you want. It is your wedding after all.

C is for...Cake & Confections

2008-12-10T22:16:00.007-05:00

What's a wedding without delicious wedding cake! Many brides and grooms are expressing their style in theme and color on wedding cakes, even the old traditional stacked cake has taken on a new twist. It's called "personality!"
Dessert buffets can feature cupcakes with a variety of flavors. Provide a cute cake box so they are easy for guests to take home at the end of the night.

Holiday Giving!

2008-12-07T12:58:00.003-05:00

It's that time of year and I'm sure you don't have to be reminded of those who are having problems making it during this holiday season. We always have a soft spot for children and this year we would like to remind you to consider giving a toy for tots! Between now and December 15th, two area wedding professionals are collecting Toys for Tots. Please feel free to drop your toys at:
Bancroft Bridals
225 Springfield Street, Agawam, MA
or
Durocher Florist
184 Union Street, West Springfield, MA

You would be helping make a child's holiday brighter!
Thank you!

November Excitement!

2008-11-20T20:09:00.003-05:00

Who said November had to be boring...especially if you're planning a wedding. The Western New England Fall Bridal Show takes place on Sunday, November 23rd at the MassMutual Center. No only will you find everything you need for your wedding in one location, but you might just find the wedding dress of your dreams at the gown sale that opens at 10:30am. All gowns just $199. Talk about saving money in your budget...you have to see to believe the beautiful gowns available at this sale. Bring your bridesmaids, your groom, your friends...and have a terrific day planning your special day at this event!

Annual Food Drive Blowout Sale!

2008-11-13T11:36:00.004-05:00

This year will be very tight for some families and what a easy way to help others while taking advantage of a great sale! For 3 Days ONLY, Bridal Heirlooms will have their Blowout Sale. Friday, November 14th through Sunday, November 16th, all Clearance Bridal Gowns are just $99 with your donation of 5 non-perishable food items. These gowns were originally $500-$2000!
Also, donate 5 non-perishable food times and get Clearance Formals and Flowergirl Dresses for just $29! Bridal Heirlooms is located at the Village Commons, 17 College Street, South Hadley, MA. www.bridalheirlooms.net. What a great way to get some terrific savings and spread some goodness this holiday season!!

Winter Accents

2008-11-06T21:15:00.004-05:00

Well, the holidays are just around the corner. Who couldn't use a little bling and shine for a winter wedding. Here's some wonderful accents that can catch anyone's eye!

Designer Gown Sale

2008-10-29T11:03:00.002-04:00

I'm passing on some saving information....there will be an amazing designer bridal gown sale at the Western New England Fall Bridal Show on Sunday, November 23rd at the MassMutual Center. All gowns just $199. These gowns were originally $800-$2000 with designs from Maggie Sottero, Casablanca, Mon Cheri, 2Be Bridal, Alfred Sung, Jasmine and much more...all brought in for this amazing sale at this bridal show. Visit the Western New England Bridal Show website for more information!

The Fifth Food Group

2008-09-27T17:23:00.004-04:00

At the Day of Elegance Bridal Show, I discovered the fifth food group! Cookies!!

You may ask...why cookies? Why not?! And that's the name of the business...Why Cookies? Light, delicious little morsels that are perfect for weddings and showers. Susan, of Why Cookies, even makes party favor bags. Your guests will love them.

Bridal Event

2008-09-18T11:10:00.003-04:00

Most brides and grooms taking the plunge attend a bridal show or two during their planning adventure. You can start out with an intimate affair this weekend called the Day of Elegance Bridal Show. This event is located at the Garden House at Look Park with wedding professionals, live music and a fashion show under the tent. All this planning and fun, with food samples and prizes...just $7.00 at the door!

ABC's of Weddings...B is for Boutonniere

2008-09-08T14:24:00.006-04:00

Time to adorn your men...yes, B is for boutonniere, a flower worn on the lapel. Traditionally, a boutonnière was worn pushed through the buttonhole of a jacket, but now simply pinned onto a jacket lapel. I know men aren't usually big fans of "wearing a flower," but it's just one special day and the boutonniere usually compliments all the flowers in the wedding.

This is one of my favorites! (Thanks Suzanne!)

Website Fun

2008-09-04T23:02:00.004-04:00

I'm addicted to this site and I'm sure once you've played with it, you'll find it just as habit forming. It's call Polyvore and it allows you to mix and match images from anywhere to create your own style. It's not only for weddings, but also for interior design and all kinds of clothing. It lets you click and drag and play with colors and style. It even tells you the designer and where to locate the items you're working with. I'm having fun. You will too...

Summer End

2008-09-01T10:43:00.011-04:00

Well, the summer is over. I made my last venture to the shoreline for a while. Mystic, Stonington, and Misquamick. The sun shining, warm on our faces with a wonderful sea breeze. So calming.

Had to finish the day with seafood from...the Sea Swirl, located on Rt. 1 in Mystic. Certainly not fine dining, but traditional drive-in roadside seafood that can't be beat!

A Hidden Pearl

2008-08-23T12:54:00.003-04:00

I've recently found a pearl...Pearl Bridal Boutique. It's a hidden gem located in Holyoke that carries a few exclusive designers not to easily found. Pearl carries bridal gowns, veils, and bridesmaids gowns. I especially like the Lynn Lugo bridesmaids designs. Silk shantung, charmeuse and silk dupioni, they are customizable with sashes, wraps and flat hem trims in beautiful complimenting colors to satisfy any size and style wedding.

Planning Fun with WeddingWire

2008-08-18T22:35:00.003-04:00

The internet can be a bride's best friend. I thought I would share a new, growing internet address…WeddingWire. You can find it at http://www.weddingwire.com/. I've personally met the team at WeddingWire when I attended a recent conference. These guys exciting and smart! They know what brides want and need to plan their wedding. They have amazing tools that allow brides to manage their own wedding, blogs and an interactive community with all kinds of information. And…they've added Martha Stewart. Check it out!

The ABC's of Weddings...A is for...

2008-08-13T10:52:00.006-04:00

A is for Apple Martini, a perfect signature drink for a fall wedding. Dress it up with an apple slice.

Green Apple Martini

2 oz. vodka

1 oz. apple Schnapps

Splash of midori

big ol’ squeeze of lime juice

thin granny smith slice for garnish

Sour Apple Martini

2 oz. vodka

1 oz. apple Schnapps

big ol’ squeeze of fresh lime juice

thin apple slice for garnish

Combine ingredients (except garnish) with cracked ice and shake it up till ice cold. Serve in a martini glass.

A Tasty Find

2008-08-12T11:54:00.001-04:00

I had the pleasure of enjoying a glass of wine with dinner that I thought I would share. Hogue Late Harvest White Riesling from the eastern part of Washington State. It was delicious with a touch of fruity apricot pear with the right touch of sweetness. Perfect for any special occasion, rehearsal dinner or wedding. Visit www.hoguecellars.com for information.

New Take On Girls Night Out

2008-08-11T08:39:00.005-04:00

We are always looking for something different for "Girls Night Out." Colorful Creations Bead Company invites you to bring your friends, wine and cheese and just relax, while you make your own bead designs. They'll even teach you how to put your design together. You can make just about anything, even complimenting jewelry to match your wedding. Hey, who can't use some new bling...

Welcome!

2008-08-07T23:19:00.006-04:00

Welcome to the I Do & Beyond Blog. This is a place to find information about weddings...and beyond in western New England. We hope to share the many things that make getting married in this area so unique and wonderful. If you're working on the "beyond" part, as in setting up your lives together after the big day, I'm sure you'll find a few tidbits here too. Stop back often!